We are giving you tips and advices here on how to be more successful in dating women. And if I have to give you my best advice, I'll tell you that you need to become a mature man! This is more gold, than any advice that you hear. Here are some of the traits, that you can find in an attractive successful male. Dominant Man
I've spent a lot of time thinking about this and now I am going to share some of my conclusions with you.
One of the mine characteristics of the Alpha Male is confidence. And we talk about masculine confidence. Most of the man today, around the world are whiners. They whine and complain about everything, looking for approval from women and basically from everyone..
Why would a woman feel strong attraction towards such a "man"?! Stop supplicating, because this shows that you don't have anything else to offer.
Actually, I believe that women look for a man, who is confident, funny, a bit dominant and etc. A man who have his live fixed ... and have a life at all. A man who would not relay on her to feel good.
My advice is to start acting more confident. Fix your posture and body language - shoulders back, put your head up and back, your chest up front and arch your back. Start taking more place when you are out. Start moving a bit more slowly. Talk deeply and slowly, try to find the resonant of your voice.
Incorporate some good beliefs. Don't think what anybody else thinks about you ... cause they probably do the same ... they are trying to find out what you think about them ... so this is pointless.
Feel comfortable around women. Believe that you are great with women, that you understand them and that they have a good time when they are with you. You are the prize, she gets the better end of the deal. Be selective and dominant ( but not domineering ) .
Use confident humor. The one that's is on the line of arrogance, but is so damn funny. It's called Cocky and Funny and originates from a man named David DeAngelo. Search for his stuff on the internet, as he is just great!
A man always have a purpose in life. He knows what he wants from life, how to get it and is working his way towards it. Nothing will stop him. He talks passionate about it and does not care what others think about it.
Confident Man
The stable attractive man is not afraid of his emotions, but is in control of them. He is able to emote. The problem with us guys is that we are way too logical. I was too, but I changed after I started dating.
Women are emotional, they like drama (soap operas and novels). How is your stone cold logic going to touch her. No way...
Be the leader of men and women will follow. Some girl friends of mine told me that there is nothing more attractive that a man, who is leading other men.
So be the man with the plan. It still amazes me when some guys act like wussies when it comes the time to decide, where are they going on a date or something else.
Girl: So, where are we going?!
Guy: I dunno, where do you wanna go? (leaving the decision to her, giving away his power, putting the responsibility of her, trying to manipulate her in "i'll-do-anything-for-you-way")
Girl: Wherever. You decide..
Guy: But I want to take you where you wanna go, c'mon tell me. (cause I am afraid to take action myself)
Girl: Fine .. let's go "wherever"!
Girl thinking: (Jerk!)
Being a challenge. That includes taking a strong lead, having high standards, taking her into your world, taking her on an emotional roller coaster, making her accommodate you.
He is adventurous and generally fun to be around. Everyday is a new adventure for him and his friends. He loves the feeling that adrenaline gives to him. His stories are always fascinating and mostly unique. He travels a lot, he is social and everybody seems to know him. (We are talking real life here, not WoW , ok?)
Social guy
And one of the most important one of all. He takes responsibility of his actions and the outcome.
